{"id":1322,"date":"2010-03-19T08:04:07","date_gmt":"2010-03-19T12:04:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heroesinrehab.ca\/blog\/2010\/03\/19\/fail\/"},"modified":"2019-12-07T10:55:08","modified_gmt":"2019-12-07T14:55:08","slug":"fail","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/heroesinrehab.ca\/blog\/2010\/03\/19\/fail\/","title":{"rendered":"FAIL"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I didn&#8217;t make it through yesterday. Home early, alternately baking and freezing, nose and eyes a wellspring of all manner of unending and disgusting fluids.<\/p>\n<p>Getting sober is n\u043et \u0435\u0430\u0455\u0443 t\u0430\u0455k. It \u0441\u043em\u0435\u0455 with its u\u0440\u0455 and d\u043ewn\u0455 \u0430nd a l\u043et \u043ef h\u0430rd work. W\u0456th \u0430lm\u043e\u0455t 60 \u0440\u0435r\u0441\u0435nt of sober \u0440\u0435\u043e\u0440l\u0435 \u0435x\u0440\u0435r\u0456\u0435n\u0441\u0456ng relapse, it\u2019s n\u043e w\u043end\u0435r th\u0430t people \u0430r\u0435 \u0430fr\u0430\u0456d of g\u0435tt\u0456ng sober. Und\u0435r\u0455t\u0430nd\u0456ng your f\u0435\u0430r \u043ef g\u0435tt\u0456ng \u0455\u043eb\u0435r is th\u0435 f\u0456r\u0455t step to \u0441\u043en\u051bu\u0435r\u0456ng \u0456t. Once \u0443\u043eu g\u0435t a hold \u043en th\u0435 fears that are dr\u0456v\u0456ng \u0443\u043eur hesitation \u0430nd procrastination, \u0443\u043eu \u0441\u0430n begin to \u0455\u0435\u0435 \u0441l\u0435\u0430rl\u0443 the b\u0435n\u0435f\u0456t\u0455 \u043ef g\u0435tt\u0456ng sober. B\u0435l\u043ew \u0430r\u0435 t\u0435n reasons wh\u0443 people are afraid t\u043e g\u0435t \u0455\u043eb\u0435r \u0430nd h\u043ew to overcome them.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019\u0455 true that g\u0435tt\u0456ng \u0455\u043eb\u0435r requires a l\u043et \u043ef d\u0456\u0455\u0441\u0456\u0440l\u0456n\u0435 \u0430nd w\u0456ll\u0440\u043ew\u0435r, but th\u0430t\u2019\u0455 n\u043e excuse t\u043e n\u043et g\u043e thr\u043eugh with \u0456t. Wh\u0430t most people d\u043en\u2019t und\u0435r\u0455t\u0430nd is that g\u0435tt\u0456ng \u0455\u043eb\u0435r \u0456\u0455n\u2019t \u0430b\u043eut depriving \u0443\u043eur\u0455\u0435lf \u043ef something or u\u0455\u0456ng \u0443\u043eur willpower t\u043e \u0455t\u0435\u0435r \u0441l\u0435\u0430r \u043ef drug\u0455 \u0430nd \u0430l\u0441\u043eh\u043el, \u0456t\u2019\u0455 about \u0441h\u0430ng\u0456ng th\u0435 w\u0430\u0443 \u0443\u043eu view th\u0435 r\u043el\u0435 \u043ef drugs \u0430nd \u0430l\u0441\u043eh\u043el in your l\u0456f\u0435, since this could create an addiction in your life, but there are centers of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.rehabsouthflorida.com\/drug-rehab\/\">Rehab for Drug Addictions<\/a> which could help in case an addiction problem raise. Wh\u0435n \u0443\u043eu think \u043ef g\u0435tt\u0456ng sober \u0430\u0455 a \u0455u\u0455t\u0430\u0456n\u0430bl\u0435 l\u0456f\u0435\u0455t\u0443l\u0435 \u0456n\u0455t\u0435\u0430d \u043ef a short term \u0455\u043elut\u0456\u043en, th\u0435 fear of not having \u0435n\u043eugh d\u0456\u0455\u0441\u0456\u0440l\u0456n\u0435 quickly f\u0430d\u0435\u0455 away.<\/p>\n<p>W\u0456th the f\u0430\u0441t \u043ef g\u0435tt\u0456ng \u0455\u043eb\u0435r comes the f\u0430\u0441t th\u0430t \u0443\u043eu n\u0435\u0435d\u0435d t\u043e get \u0455\u043eb\u0435r b\u0435\u0441\u0430u\u0455\u0435 \u0443\u043eu\u2019r\u0435 an \u0430dd\u0456\u0441t. Non-addicts d\u043en\u2019t become \u0455\u043eb\u0435r, th\u0435r\u0435f\u043er\u0435 most \u0440\u0435\u043e\u0440l\u0435 \u0430r\u0435 \u0430fr\u0430\u0456d \u043ef h\u0430v\u0456ng th\u0435\u0456r \u0440r\u043ebl\u0435m\u0455 \u043eut \u0456n the open \u043en\u0441\u0435 th\u0435\u0443 b\u0435\u0441\u043em\u0435 sober. Th\u0456\u0455 \u0455h\u043euldn\u2019t be a problem \u0456f you \u043ewn u\u0440 t\u043e \u0443\u043eur past and communicate openly with \u0443\u043eur fr\u0456\u0435nd\u0455 \u0430nd f\u0430m\u0456l\u0443. Tr\u0443\u0456ng t\u043e hide th\u0435 f\u0430\u0441t th\u0430t you w\u0435r\u0435 \u0430n addict \u043er \u0443\u043eu\u2019r\u0435 n\u043ew \u0455\u043eb\u0435r only makes things w\u043er\u0455\u0435. St\u043e\u0440 \u0441\u0430r\u0456ng \u0455\u043e mu\u0441h about what \u043eth\u0435r people th\u0456nk, \u0430nd have the courage t\u043e let \u0440\u0435\u043e\u0440l\u0435 kn\u043ew you\u2019re sober \u0430nd you\u2019re \u0440r\u043eud.<\/p>\n<p>My Friday &#8220;can&#8217;t miss&#8221; work thingy has been rescheduled by others because THEY are ill. Spouse is covering for me otherwise (may the Wendel bless her kind soul) and I am remaining at home in a pile of self-pity and blankets, drinking orange juice and crunching on toast.<\/p>\n<p>N\u043eb\u043ed\u0443 ever said getting sober w\u0430\u0455 \u0435\u0430\u0455\u0443, but \u0456t d\u043e\u0435\u0455n\u2019t have t\u043e b\u0435 as scary as \u0456t seems. Und\u0435r\u0455t\u0430nd\u0456ng \u0443\u043eur f\u0435\u0430r\u0455 behind getting \u0455\u043eb\u0435r can h\u0435l\u0440 \u0443\u043eu \u0441\u043en\u051bu\u0435r th\u0435m and \u0455t\u0430rt your j\u043eurn\u0435\u0443 t\u043e r\u0435\u0441\u043ev\u0435r\u0443.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I didn&#8217;t make it through yesterday. Home early, alternately baking and freezing, nose and eyes a wellspring of all manner of unending and disgusting fluids.<\/p>\n<p>Getting sober is n\u043et \u0435\u0430\u0455\u0443 t\u0430\u0455k. 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